Do you feel like your man has gotten into the habit of
taking you for granted?
Has it been awhile since he complimented you or even
noticed that you were there?
Do you feel as though you are jumping up and down for
attention and getting no reaction from him?
This doesn't necessarily mean that the relationship is
doomed, but it does mean that you should strongly
consider taking matters into your own hands.
Sometimes getting him to notice you means that you create
the opportunity for that to happen. You want your man to
see nothing but stars when they look at us.
You want him to be enamored with who you are and constantly
shoot loving glances and compliments your way.
Unfortunately, this is just not how men are built.
We need little reminders of just how great you are, and
we need you to keep us interested.
Every relationship comes to a standstill or needs some
refreshing, and you may need to be the one to make that
So if you feel like your man isn't really taking note of
you lately, then it's time to get him to notice you and to
remember what makes you so great!
Keep Things Interesting
You need to make him fall in love with you again. You need
to show him that you are a beautiful face with substance
and a touch of excitement.
Keep things interesting by going out and buying a new
piece of lingerie to wow him with. Rent a hotel room and
invite him along for a romantic rendezvous.
Doing new, innovative and fresh things can really breathe
new life into your relationship. Not only will he notice
you, but he will also appreciate you for all that you are.
Excitement is always a good thing in a relationship, and
so if it's been awhile since either of you have felt
butterflies, then perhaps you need a bit of a recharge.
Imagine his reaction when he sees that you tried and you
took the excitement factor into your own hands.
Get Dressed Up and Let Him Pick You Up
When is the last time that you went out on an amazing
Why not try to create one and really surprise him with
something refreshing and new?
Send him an invitation for a date, but be vague. Ask him
to meet you at a special bar in town, and then wait for
him to arrive.
Get all dolled up and really make yourself up - embrace
the hot inner goddess that lies within you!
Have fun with this, and know how over-the-top excited
he will be when he sees you. Then play the part of a
character, and act like you've never met each other.
Let him pick you up at the bar, and recreate the first
time you two met.
This is a fun exercise for any couple and can be
particularly interesting and helpful if you feel like
he needs to notice you more or appreciate you.
It doesn't take much effort but this hot pick-up date can
go a long way in getting him to notice you and hold onto
just how special you are!
Be Happy, Have Fun and Feel Good About Yourself
Nobody wants to be with a "Debbie Downer," so don't be
Even if you feel down and out, do your best to try and
appreciate what life has to offer. This isn't just good
advice for life in general but can really go a long way
in helping him to notice you.
When you are down, he feels helpless in supporting you,
which can sometimes be a turnoff. There are
understandable circumstances but in general, positivity
can go a long way.
If you can find a way to stay happy, confident and feel
good about yourself, he will notice this.
You will find this mindset to be particularly helpful if
you have been in a slump. Focusing on and accentuating the
positive can go a long way in helping you to be happy.
He will notice how self-assured you are and how happy you
seem. He will want to be a part of that. This is good
for your self-esteem and mindset and really helps you to
get him to notice you in a positive light.
What's good for you is good for him, and the relationship
gets to a better place in the process.
He will notice you for all the right reasons, and that's a
Don't Miss This
As a final piece of advice, be sure to check out this
short video, which shows how to communicate with men
in such a way that he sees you as the one woman who
truly "gets" him.